Sounds like a made for TV episode of that man hater Dr. Phil.

I want to know what kind of woman give a guy a Cadillac for a gift - maybe desperate! Surly he did not think it was his if he broke up? Sounds like his sugar momma got stuck with some bitter salt. I agree with Kristi, if she is showering cars before marriage then what will she do after marriage, surly there is more to this story!

Any man who would take such a gift would never return it. A real man can afford his own car! Don't buy your man gifts in the first place like this. Find one who already has the essentials.
As for the woman... She gave it away, hence it is no longer hers to take back. He will get to keep it! I feel no sympathy for her. Too many women overlook a good guy to go out with these deadbeats.

ROBERT, I like the sound of your thoughts. A real man should be able to afford his own car! Where are these REAL men? I know at least 15 nice girls with solid jobs, attractive, smart, productive, fun and yet they are still looking for this " real man." Many of the men are coming back from war and are dealing with the after affect of their experiences. Other men are living with parents. Some can't afford to date due to the state of the economy. They notice that if they are not willing to involve themselves in certain "activities" the "real men" just move on. I have though over and over about having a speed dating event for Good Guys/Great Girls night. What do you think?

They are at work, making a living so they can be independent. They are at school becoming better so they can be independent. They are right in front of you but they are not size 4 with a 38DD. They do not look like a hot starlet that has been duped by men into thinking they have to starve themselves to be worthy of a relationship. I wish every married couple would invite all their "Good" single male & female friends over for a social. Fellow neighbors & co workers would also invite all their "Good" male and female friends as well so they can get to know each other in an informal setting. By being invited by a friend that at least says he things you are worth putting his name on the line for you. Going to a bar, to meet a stranger is dangerous, It is hard to meet a person that wants a real relationship because the "Cow" and "Bull"is out there "giving it away for free" as the old people used to say. Sex has ruined an entire generation for meeting, dating, courting, engagement and then marriage. This generation can be summed up in this comment. Eva speaking to Brittany---"So how are things going with Josh, still sleeping with him?" NO, I left him after a month because he asked to borrow $30 bucks!" Now what this says is that both have given their very essence a value of less than $30. They will sleep with the person that they wouldn't lend $30 too! Their value is cheap and who really wants cheap after all! I have always wanted to host a ARCH DAWG speed dating night!

Robert, how old are you, tell me about yourself, are you into sports & if so what teams. Do you want to marry i the next 5 years. Do you follow any certain teaching? Do you enjoy family life? Are you open to learning a new hobby? Do you like traveling? Where was the last place you viewed as beautiful? Have you ever voted in an election. What was your best day and why? Would you ever consider moving for a woman. What 3 qualities must your mate possess? If you described your chosen mate what would she look like? How important is education to you. Have your traveled much? What type of humor do you enjoy? Do you keep your bills paid on time? Do you enjoy being quiet and relaxing? Does quietness bother you? When was your last great day with friends? What one thing about your mother did you admire most? What single trait from your father did you receive? If you want children, why? How would you describe love? That is a bit of information that I feel I would want to know about a person before I would want to move a relationship to the next level. Now days, the question starts and finishes with DO YOU WANT TO HIT THE SHEETS! I know 5 young women that I think are awesome. They are different as light and day. They are all educated & attractive. They are all independent. They are great fun to spend time with. They give back to their communities. They are at this very minute, taping the FAMILY FUED show down in Atlanta. Want to meet them?

Size 4 with 38DD would topple over on her face every time she stood up!!

If she had signed it over, why in the world did he not go get a new title in his name. Moron.

Cynthia... I'm 36, used to do all kinds of sports (tennis, baseball, football), but now I just do exercisish stuff. I love hiking and the outdoors (canoeing, camping, long drives through the mountains, cabins). I want to marry as soon as I meet a mutually beneficial companion and have earned each others trust... no time limits.
The last beautiful place I saw was Pisgah National Forest this past weekend. I visited a childhood friends and his family... I like family life.
Not sure I would move for a woman. Almost did once... took me a few months to get transferred which was about a month longer than we lasted. The distance causes so much strain. If I loved the woman enough, and had enough history to trust her... Then I would definitely move for her. I have voted in every election since I turned 18....
3 qualities in a woman. That's a hard one... She has to be open minded... not a blind follower of anything. Planning for the future is big. I want someone who will look at future consequences before acting now. Someone who will work for a relationship... make compromises. I get tired of being the only one.
I have traveled a reasonable amount. Never left the country, but been lots of places here. I love quiet and relaxing(like nature). My mom.. I admire everything about her (except a little overly religious). Always pay bills on time!
From dad- Healthy skepticism and hard work

I don't want to get too personal on a website open to everyone! lol

NGW ah ..quick thinking & smarts, 2 great traits in a man. ROBERT, I agree with you about the gym. I look at being in shape as a personality trait the trait of being discipline! To be in shape these days means you take time for yourself, you value healthy food choices, you recognize the dangers of unhealthy habits & you are disciplined. When I WAS a young girl, I was in shape. Five miles around the UGA track 5 times a week...& loved it. NEVER ate refined sugar (read the book SUGAR BLUES & swore it off), never drank coke,coffee, or tea, (raised your heart rate & discolored your teeth). Did not do drugs( thought it was stupid) & never smoked pot (saw too many friends act the fool while high) or cigs ( Dad smoked & I hated the smell). I had three healthy children, all gifted, and I owe that to clean living. Today, I walk the dogs five days a week around the block once, have a sugar bowl, believe in better living through chemistry, still only drink water and have the lungs of a smoker due to second hand smokers at my past waitressing and cocktail jobs and living with smokers early in life. I still have friends trying to get me to "take it hit---it won't kill you, they swear. I was an odd one when it came to drugs in the 70's. I need to get back to being disciplined about my health but there are so many other things that seem like more fun now days. Now, if I could only figure how to type & be on the treadmill at the same time, now that would be a perfect day for me!

Oh Robert, you sound like a Mother dream and a father relief. Of the five women I am thinking about, you have the qualities that 3 of them would find very admirable. The comments about your parents are so close to these girls that I might believe you have been listening to their dinner conservations while growing up. Voting since 18, now you just put that one in there to impress me! Us moms get a bit pushy about religion because we have lived through enough pain, heartache, joy and have come to realize that with out HIM we would not have made it. So we of course want our children to also have HIM as a constant companion for those days of trials and joys. If I ever do plan my, "ARCH DAWG Speed Dating" event, I will give you a free ticket to the event. I know you would enjoy sitting across the table from one of these, beautiful, spunky, bright, interesting, and "working too hard to find the right one" girls I have in mind. I may however direct them to this site to read about MR ROBERT!

I am beginning to think we need a matchmaking section on Dacula Patch...

Anyone ever watch the old "Dating Game"?

Cynthia.... Don't build me up too much. Like everyone, I have my faults.
But thank you. I know better than to generalize all women the same as the ones I find, but actually hearing from one of them is a welcome relief!
stayfrosty27@yahoo.com
send me an email and I will send a pic and answer any other questions I deemed too personal to answer on here. I hope your husband appreciates how truly rare a woman like you happens to be!

Dating Game or Love Connection? I get those two mixed up. I think Love Connection was even older. I just remember Chuck Woolery doing his "we'll be back, two and two". Wow I feel old for posting that!

And not to throw politics into the discussion and draw Brian in here, but I heard Woolery the other day on Hannity's radio show. Seems like a good conservative who "gets" it.

I'm open minded... and not afraid to try something new! I am resisting meeting someone online. I hear it works, but I don't like the ability of someone to write and rewrite their points. I like to look them in the eye and find out about them...
Who knows... I might one day.

BOY, I leave to meet & greet a candidate running for Senate and BAMLB - PATCH MATCH is created! it all blows up while I am gone! I love the idea of Patch Match Dating! Let me have a week as I am closing on two home this week and must give my clients the respect of my time and undivided attention. Hmmm Kristi, lets think this through and make it happen. I have always wanted to own a speed dating service. I think the way people skype, text, and email, it would be a new thing for the two persons of the opposite sex are required to sit down, across a candle lit table, with eye to eye contact, wonderful fragrances floating back and forth and that knowing tingle that on your neck as you meet a possible compatible person. The bell would ring and the seating would spin to the next location every 3 minutes. I will speak to these ladies next week and see it I can get them away from work and agree to try the Patch Match Game. Well Robert, now you know why most people just READ the Patch and are too afraid to respond! My husband always ask why do I fix people up....I guess I am a romantic at my deepest core, and why not being in love or being loved is a wonderful thing to share and feel with another person.

Yes, it would have to be Patch Match... The Patch Boat just doesn't work!

I was just reading Ted Bundy's autobiography.

Cynthia,
Really, you are coming
Across as rather
Zealous in this endeavor,
Yes?

;)

DaculaHood, Please explain your comment. ???

This has been quite an interesting discussion board!!!
Although, why is it that at the beginning of summer, my exes come out of the woodwork. I got tracked down at a show in Marietta last night...
Curiouser and curiouser...

Mr RObert, Heat makes women HOT! We are in a heat wave! Record breaking times. It is a perfect time for a man to earn points. We all need a sweet man to bring us maybe a COLD ice cream treat, or a cool adult drink on a hot evening. Past pleasant memory with a past beau will rear its hot heated head on a hot evening for most women. Men should take advantage of this heat and invite someone to see a movie in a DARK and COOL movie house while enjoying a huge ice cold drink throughout the movie. Magic Mike seems to be a movie most women are wanting to check out. Later, once the sun have gone down it is off to enjoy a late evening dinner in a cool restaurant with of course TALL COOL FORZEN DRINKS! I have never understood how men did not catch on to seasonal need of women. We are slaves to the seasons and in the summer take advantage of offering a prospect a creative delightful cool evening. My best summer evening was an invite to a midnight swim (the pool was closed- adding to the mystery and danger of the evening) in the light of the moon, followed by hours of quiet talk and frozen drinks, while lounging about the pool deck. SMART FELLOW, I now call him Hubby. It may not result in the giving of a caddy but then I would have been running in the opposite direction if I was that guy. Hurry take advantage of the heat before this history make heat is a thing of the past and you will never be able to say, "Yes, we met in the Heat Wave of 2012!"

Mr Robert,
Boy! Kristi & I have not even been able to get together yet on the suggested PATCH MATCH & you have gone & gotten all dated up!!! Sounds like she read your post about how you prefer face-to-face over the internet & took note. A man with his act together & wanting to add a special lady into the mix is exciting to women. Sometimes it is about timing when it comes to women, we are creatures with many facets to our actions. It is time to take advantage of this heat wave & treat your lady to a "COOL EVENING!" If you have been reading along with this blog think about an evening of cool activities for your next date. Treat your "SO" to a wonderful evening that begins way after dark. With the heat being so oppressive, many will have short fuses & can react with a heated responses. THINK about a wonderful evening, for your SO, that will take the heat out of the atmosphere and put it into your love life. A midnight date filled with icy delights will melt any heart. I see those photo of ice hotels & think, "Boy would that feel great in the summer months!" Yet, we are not in the frozen north, for most, a cool dip in the pool, a water balloon fight, or even a private SLIP & SLIDE date very late in the dark cool of the night, along with tall frosty drinks & ice cubes is a night very few could resist or forget. When was the last time you had childlike fun as an adult? Give it a try Mr. Robert and let us know if it was a thumbs up or a thumbs down!

I like the idea of the Patch Match...it is hard to meet other single people looking for that special someone. I work 12 to 14 hours a day and have no interest in going to a bar to meet strangers (especially after they have already had a few too many).

I wrote a lengthy response and posted it before lunch... It disappeared. I think it is a little early to tell after 1 weekend... I like your optimism though!

My email is Cynthia_sold_it@yahoo.com is you want to send it to me or you can see Kristi's email is above. I did not see it if it was meant for me. Hope you have some exciting fireworks planned for this weekend with your friends. Hope we don't get rained out. Kristi and I need to have a pow-wow about the PATCH-MATCH!